Comments on: The Beautiful Curse

By: lauren

lauren — Sun, 18 Jul 2010 12:53:33 +0000

jen, i feel sorry for you, i really do, because i know houw you feel. it is true if your beautiful people either want to take advantage of you and want to destroy you. no wonder alot of beautiful people are quiet and tend to not have friends. but always know you are not alone there is alot of people out there like you.

By: Jen

Jen — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 11:12:33 +0000

I have looked up this blog because I am crying right now and have done for as long as I can remember. I was bullied and beaten since I was ten years old and also received sexually inappropriate attention from males since about age 9. Yes 9.

I can’t keep female friends, they always accuse me of sleeping with their boyfriends when they know darn well I didn’t.

I can’t keep a boyfriend because if I don’t have sex straight away they see me as a liability, but nevertheless tell the whole neighborhood that we did it anyway so they will look good.

I have even had to remove my children from their sports teams because I had a mental breakdown once I was accused of sleeping with their coach for christ sakes.

What is ironic, is that I haven’t had sex in 5 years because I desperately want respect from both women and men, but this doesn’t change the fact that they will always perceive me as a sex goddess simply because BEAUTY IS A CURSE.

Even family members (female ones) tried to destroy my childhood (and succeeded).
Mums boyfriends tried it on, married men try it on, even lecturers at college tried it on (female and male)!

You would not believe how lonely my life is, and how decent my character actually is, but I even get asked if I would have sex for money from men. The other day I took my son to the doctor and HE even asked if I was single during a CONSULTATION.

I hate my life, but I can’t kill myself because then my kids will have no one.

By: Biashe

Biashe — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 17:58:26 +0000

As a 41 year-old woman, I must say being attractive is hard, and can feel like a curse most of the time. I was teased and taunted as I young teen because of my looks, and then around 13 things changed, and every since I’ve had a hard time with females. I even left my church somewhat because the “saved women” there didn’t act any better, and I never felt welcomed or was invited inside of groups. What people don’t realize that just like unattractive people, we can’t help our looks and were born with them. Take the time to get to know the REAL person behind the looks. I have one girlfriend of 25 years, because women hate me on site, and never get to know me, even family members keep me at a distance. Life is good for me, have a wonderful husband and children, but would love to have had more friends in my life…the “curse” of beauty is very real..

By: Home made hands job

Home made hands job — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 19:34:50 +0000

People can precieve you has being stuck up, self-centered, unintelligent, shallow, they won’t talk to you because they don’t feel good enough, if you’re really beautiful guys won’t approach you, etc…..
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By: Home made hands job

Home made hands job — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 19:34:09 +0000

Consider an unattractive woman… they draw far less of a crowd to choose from, but there’s a good chance they at least know a good guy when they see one.
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By: Home made hands job

Home made hands job — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 19:29:16 +0000

I’ve noticed that beautiful woman are not necessarily happier, maybe even less happy than their less attractive friends. Yeah, its nice to get attention, but that’s only temporary.
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By: used tires

used tires — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 07:07:29 +0000

Now this is a really tough issue to discuss, there could be so many different approaches and views on this… I think in the end… whether you are beautiful or ugly… or in between. It just depends on the person. There are some people in this world that are not meant to be beautiful, as in they don’t have the mentality to do it, just like there are some people that don’t have the mentality to be ugly. I think like anything in life, it’s all about the mental approach. I am not sure if you understand what I mean…. but that’s how I see it.

Till then,

Jean